Okay, i think it was Coleshot1 who told me this, it is very helpful.
So if your account is lagged in, go to the task manager, then go on processes then end any process that are Java.
(http://i52.tinypic.com/3149kk2.jpg)
Not sure if it applies to Mac as well but i think Mute may end up posting how to do it. :)
Notice how much easier Windows is. Good guide, Yoho. (=
Simply but great. Good job informing those who don't know. :P